It seems if you get stoned with any sensible person and talk about life on other planets they will point to the notion that with a universe that has a near infinite amount of planets that it would only be reasonable to deduce that there is life somewhere out there.  When it comes to the notion of intelligent life coming to earth for a visit you definitely seem to have some people open to the notion.  Either they have and that is where some species came from.  Or that aliens will visit in the future.  Most people seem hopeful it will happen in their lifetime.  Maybe it is a bit of whimsy and romanticism.  We probably have all seen something in the sky we can't explain.  But it is a leap to fill that gap with the notion of it being alien to earth life.  I feel with every step closer to the idea of direct interaction with alien life and earth the more you lose people believing and the more people get kooky.  Crop circles seem to be mostly thought of as a strong line in the sand.  In fact.  If I were personally single that would be a total cut off line.  I would not date anyone who believes crop circles are from alien life.  Where is your cut off line in believing alien life exists or is interacting with our planet?  Lizard people?  People having sex with aliens?  Having implants embedded in their skin?  

If it was just a hobby I don’t think I would care, I feel like a lot of people believe in out there things or stuff that’s objectively false.


I’ve watched a few videos from people claiming they’ve seen aliens and I found them interesting but I haven’t gone too far into it.

I bought this book from a huge book sale for $2..it’s out there 😂.

I believe Aliens exist, and I’m sure they’ll keep their distance until we stop blowing each other up and arguing over gender pronouns.

There are legit reasons not to want to date someone. Bipolar disorder? Next. Kids? No thanks. But something silly like crop circles? That's borderline a positive trait...

Feb 5, 2019 12:54:36 GMT @ness said:

There are legit reasons not to want to date someone. Bipolar disorder? Next. Kids? No thanks. But something silly like crop circles? That's borderline a positive trait...

Woah, wait an interesting second.  Would you say mental health as in bipolar disorder is an acceptable reason today not to date someone?  I have been out of dating for 20+ years.  My gut feeling is that it would be insensitive to say one would not date someone with bipolar disorder.  Is it?



I personally find the sillier deal breakers in dating funny.

Feb 5, 2019 15:02:31 GMT theend said:

Feb 5, 2019 12:54:36 GMT @ness said:

There are legit reasons not to want to date someone. Bipolar disorder? Next. Kids? No thanks. But something silly like crop circles? That's borderline a positive trait...

Woah, wait an interesting second.  Would you say mental health as in bipolar disorder is an acceptable reason today not to date someone?  I have been out of dating for 20+ years.  My gut feeling is that it would be insensitive to say one would not date someone with bipolar disorder.  Is it?



I personally find the sillier deal breakers in dating funny.

Honestly I don't think there's any wrong reason to not date someone but other than looks I'd say mental health is really #2. Dealing with it would likely be exhausting.

And dangerous...

Would make for an interesting topic for sure.

Crop circles... When I first saw the video how people do them I will admit it's like finding out about santa. It's one of those things you just wanna believe.

@ness, I personally agree. Your choice in who you date should be the one place where you can discriminate in any way. It has been interestingly challenged in recent years. Some rare people have tossed out the bigot label to someone who would say they're not attracted to transgendered people or not willing to date a transgendered person.

I think it’s good people know their preferences when it comes to dating, no matter how trivial.

I know too many guys who said they didn’t want kids in any way,shape or form yet when the dating pool started narrowing as they got older, started dating single mothers and then complained they didn’t know how to deal with the children.

Feb 5, 2019 15:02:31 GMT theend said:

Feb 5, 2019 12:54:36 GMT @ness said:

There are legit reasons not to want to date someone. Bipolar disorder? Next. Kids? No thanks. But something silly like crop circles? That's borderline a positive trait...

Woah, wait an interesting second.  Would you say mental health as in bipolar disorder is an acceptable reason today not to date someone?  I have been out of dating for 20+ years.  My gut feeling is that it would be insensitive to say one would not date someone with bipolar disorder.  Is it?



I personally find the sillier deal breakers in dating funny.

Because some people aren't mature enough, ready or able to sufficiently support a person with a mental illness. The most mature thing to do here, would be acknowledging you're not ready, or unable. And as heart-breaking as it might be, it may be for the best. For both parties.

Feb 5, 2019 12:54:36 GMT @ness said:

There are legit reasons not to want to date someone. Bipolar disorder? Next. Kids? No thanks. But something silly like crop circles? That's borderline a positive trait...

I'd personally avoid anyone devotedly religious before someone who believed in aliens. You want nuts - read any religious text.

You have the right to date whomever you want for whatever reason you want. There’s a difference between preference and trolls online that go around screaming why men or women are undateable.