Apr 18, 2018 0:22:31 GMT Mistress said:

The contract and rules were big red flag. He kept telling Nikki he would consider having a kid and marriage just to pacify her when she was close to realizing things would never change. He should've cut the cord long ago.

Why's it in him and not her to cut the cord? Two independent adult individuals are involved in this scenario.

Apr 18, 2018 12:23:17 GMT 🤯 said:

Apr 18, 2018 0:22:31 GMT Mistress said:

The contract and rules were big red flag. He kept telling Nikki he would consider having a kid and marriage just to pacify her when she was close to realizing things would never change. He should've cut the cord long ago.

Why's it in him and not her to cut the cord? Two independent adult individuals are involved in this scenario.

She was in love, he knew she was in love and he used that to sway her into following his rules and nonsense, knowing he had no intention of marriage or kids or the stuff she wanted. He kept leaving the door open with the idea of "if I do this, maybe John will change his mind"... wasted 6 years of her life while she was doing a thing he asked, to please him.

He knew what he wanted years ago..no kids..no marrige.whyy didn't he put a stop to it then? Not 3 weeks before the wedding.

But even before the breakup, I considered him a douche. Giving someone a contract before you consider them "worthy" of moving in with you is a bit demeaning. Plus he has a very condescending tone towards Nikki and Her family. And I truly believe he is OCD...

You can’t pin it all on Cena when all the signs were clearly there, Nikki’s problem is thinking/believing that he would change or that she could change him, she should have got out ages ago.

Nikki should pay off Make A Wish to grant her a wish of marriage to John Cena, then he'd have to do it.

Nikki’s a capable and successful adult not a child that’s incapable of making a rational decision.

Apr 19, 2018 1:21:19 GMT System said:

Nikki’s a capable and successful adult not a child that’s incapable of making a rational decision.

Maybe she signed away her free will whenever she signed this supposed contract to move into Cena's place?

Apr 19, 2018 0:43:01 GMT Kilgore said:

Nikki should pay off Make A Wish to grant her a wish of marriage to John Cena, then he'd have to do it.

That would require a camera crew so I don't think he would want that messiness to be exposed to the public.

I feel bad for John as he is getting slammed pretty hard. From day one he always said he did not want kids or to be married. He compromises on the wedding then Nikki starts to want a kid after her sister has one. Feel like he was clear on what he wanted but Nikki was not sure what she wanted to the point where now what she wants is not what John was ok with. From the tweets and having been in Cena's place with an engagement falling apart, clearly he was fighting to make things work.

Having met and talked with Cena, he is not the dick people make him out to be. Dude is a really cool guy who is sincere and will help you if you can. Not sure why so many believe he is an asshole.

I wonder how binding the document is in regards to what happens next. Does he have to evict her in court?

Apr 18, 2018 21:04:33 GMT Mistress said:

Apr 18, 2018 12:23:17 GMT 🤯 said:

Why's it in him and not her to cut the cord? Two independent adult individuals are involved in this scenario.

She was in love, he knew she was in love and he used that to sway her into following his rules and nonsense, knowing he had no intention of marriage or kids or the stuff she wanted. He kept leaving the door open with the idea of "if I do this, maybe John will change his mind"... wasted 6 years of her life while she was doing a thing he asked, to please him.

He knew what he wanted years ago..no kids..no marrige.whyy didn't he put a stop to it then? Not 3 weeks before the wedding.

But even before the breakup, I considered him a douche. Giving someone a contract before you consider them "worthy" of moving in with you is a bit demeaning. Plus he has a very condescending tone towards Nikki and Her family. And I truly believe he is OCD...

Didnt Nikki just straight up dump Dolph for Cena? After they broke up Dolphs career has not been the same. Maybe this is karma for Nikki dumping Dolph. 

Now that Big Johnny is Nikkis step dad let the burial of Cena begin. 

Apr 19, 2018 13:52:07 GMT @ness said:

I wonder how binding the document is in regards to what happens next. Does he have to evict her in court?

I'm still a little confused...

Did they break up or just call off the wedding?

Maybe the contract states she can still live in The House That Cena Built as long as the Champ is allowed to go pound town on that vaj. WHO KNOWS!?

Page one, it says they've broken up and ended their engagement.

Apr 16, 2018 4:14:47 GMT Kilgore said:

'Taker whopped Cena so bad his fiance fucking left him.

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Apr 19, 2018 15:41:11 GMT CM Punk'd said:

Page one, it says they've broken up and ended their engagement.

Well, I mean... What is "broken up"? Like she left the house, breached her contact, is still letting Cena tap dat ass even if they aren't "together"? Modern relationships can be so confusing...

You'd think they'd be through. How can you accept someone's proposal, have it broken and still want to be with them?

Guess it depends on how many half-baths are in the Cena House.

They are fully broken up, not together at all. I don’t understand the confusion.

But how do we know they're fully broken up?! I still think this is a meta work that'll end up having the Savage/Liz pale in comparison.

Do you americans really have relationship contracts or is this a joke?

Apr 22, 2018 12:01:41 GMT toxicboy1980 said:

Do you americans really have relationship contracts or is this a joke?

Marriage is a contract...

Apr 22, 2018 12:08:33 GMT @ness said:

Apr 22, 2018 12:01:41 GMT toxicboy1980 said:

Do you americans really have relationship contracts or is this a joke?

Marriage is a contract...

Yes, but i got the impression Nikki and Cena had some kind of contract already. I ask because your country is retarded, so anything is possible. 

Apr 22, 2018 12:17:46 GMT toxicboy1980 said:

Apr 22, 2018 12:08:33 GMT @ness said:

Marriage is a contract...

Yes, but i got the impression Nikki and Cena had some kind of contract already. I ask because your country is retarded, so anything is possible. 

I would say it's more of a lease agreement than a relationship contract.

She had a 75 page contract in regards to moving into his home.

It might be different in the US, but in Australia if you live with a defacto partner for awhile (18 months + I think) it would be similar to a divorce if the couple split as far as the property is concerned. So simply guess he didn’t want her to take half.

Apr 22, 2018 16:07:18 GMT System said:

She had a 75 page contract in regards to moving into his home.

It might be different in the US, but in Australia if you live with a defacto partner for awhile (18 months + I think) it would be similar to a divorce if the couple split as far as the property is concerned. So simply guess he didn’t want her to take half.

Yeah I think we have that here in the states also.  It's Common Law Marriage.  It's fucking bull shit.  However my state doesn't have it, one of the upsides to living in California.  We have to put up with the state going up in flames and far right wingers actually cheering about it so we need a win.  

Apr 22, 2018 12:01:41 GMT toxicboy1980 said:

Do you americans really have relationship contracts or is this a joke?

Prenups? They aren't common, but they are a thing. Basically if you're rich, you can have your fiancé sign a document saying if you get married and divorced, you ain't getting half my money.

Relationship contracts like -- a friend who watches TD* says Cena had some house rule about dressing up for Sunday dinner and the dudes retreat to the cigar room after the meal or something? That's just weird.

*it is a friend, I swear. I would have no issues admitting to watching Total Divas if I did

It was Total Bellas which was actually a really interesting watch because it took place just as Bryan had retired from wrestling.

It's an E reality show so I thought it would be damn near 'Leave It To Lamas' territory of awful reality tv. Instead it was actively insightful and another way to see one of the best wrestlers deal with such a difficult part of his life.

Plus watching John Lauranaitis play the father figure was hilarious. If 2012 Raw had been more like that, I would have watched so much more WWE TV.

But yes, you're friend was 100% right about that and it was odd. I assumed it was played up for TV and just a way for Cena, Bryan, Bro Bella and Johnny to hash out whatever storyline was happening on the show.

How long did everyone live in the Cena House for Total Bellas? Don't you become a tenant after 30 days? I don't remember anyone else signing the 75 pager, which is a little surprising looking back. Honestly I see nothing wrong with getting the "house rules" in an actual document. I know Cena is painted like Sheldon and his roommate agreement for the lulz, but if it ain't in writing it didn't happen...

I don't know how much is real and fake here, but I've always had a Troy McClure/Selma Bouvier vibe, and this relationship was more of a business arrangement with obvious perks to make John Cena appear more relatable.

That or he finally got sick and tired of listening to her speak her every inane and vapid thought and hanging out with her equally vapid and incredible exhausting family.

Based on Cena’s comments today, I think is all a work.

May 14, 2018 19:09:39 GMT KJ said:

Based on Cena’s comments today, I think is all a work.

I knew it!

At this point and with how many people see the relationship as manufactured anyway it must all be a storyline into them getting back together for the next season.